
On October 12, 2006, New York Yankee pitcher Cory Lidle and his flight instructor crashed their plane into an apartment building on the Upper East Side of New York City. Advertising executive Dave Trott was in London, at a reception where a television was on, showing news from CNN, when a news flash appears on the screen about the crash. Pictures are broadcast from a news helicopter.
Because of terrorism fears, it's especially big news. The building is on fire and debris is showering down. Firetrucks are blocking the street and policemen are everywhere.
Trott was worried because his sister lives in the neighborhood. He checks the time difference and figures she would normally be at work then. So he calls her at her office and is relieved when she picks up.
He says, “Hi Shirl, I just want to check you guys are okay.”
She says, “Sure, why?”
He says, “Because of that plane that just hit the Upper East Side?”
She says, “What plane?”
He says, “It’s on CNN, an apartment block at 72nd and 2nd.”
She says “WHAT?”
She hangs up and calls her husband, back at their apartment.
He says, “I didn’t hear anything, let me look out the window,”
He looks, comes back to the phone and says, “Gee there sure are a lot of cops and firetrucks around.”
He heads out to the street to see what’s up. But the cops won’t let him out of his building.
He's told, “Sorry buddy, we gotta keep the streets clear. A plane just hit a building on the next block.”
He hadn’t noticed; hadn't heard a thing.
Trott was over three thousand miles away. In another country. On another continent. And he knows a plane has hit a building in his brother-in-law's neighborhood before the brother-in-law does.
Besides the obvious lesson about the speed and power of modern communication techniques, this scenario can teach us a lot about how effective communication works.
As Trott points out, our view of the world is dominated by our context, our surroundings, and our environment.
Trott's brother-in-law was focused on something else. Two blocks away was outside his consciousness. So the plane-crash didn’t exist for him.
Meanwhile, even though Trott was far, far away, he was in a room with CNN on. His immediate consciousness included the crash footage. For him, the crash wasn’t 3,000 miles away. It wasn’t even two blocks away. It was right next to him.
To be heard, we have to be in someone’s immediate consciousness. That means in an intimate space. That means one-to-one.
That means, if we’re using the media, we can only ever talk to one person at a time. We’re never addressing a crowd of people, even if the reach of your communication is immense. And even if we are speaking to a group, we're heard better when the communication is direct. Personal.
We’re only ever talking to one person at a time.
This concept isn’t new. It's how effective marketing has always worked. Think back to Lord Kitchener’s original World War I poster (see above). The British Army, fighting the Germans, was running out of soldiers, so they ran a recruitment poster.
But the visual didn’t show massed ranks of soldiers. It didn't focus on the need for hundreds, thousands, or even millions of recruits. The visual was Kitchener pointing out of the poster, straight at the viewer. The headline implored, "YOUR COUNTRY NEEDS YOU."
One-to-one.
And that poster worked. It got millions of recruits by talking to people one at a time. It was so successful the we copied here in the States with a picture of Uncle Sam and the same headline (see below). It worked well here too.
One at a time.
That poster was created nearly 100 years ago. Since then media has changed and changed again. We got newpapers, then magazines, then telephones, then moving pictures, then talking pictures, then radio, then television, then color television, then CD players, then the internet, then MP3 players, then digital, then satellite, then social media, then whatever’s next. Media has changed and it will keep changing.
The only thing that doesn’t changed is people. They’re still the same. We're still the same. All we're aware of is our immediate consciousness.
That’s where we need to reach people.
Whatever the medium is.
We’re still only ever talking to one person.










